She gave up her 18-year job, resigned with her husband, and took her twin daughters to travel by car for a year

time:2023-02-09 06:22:08 source:kilakilavilla.com author:Riding
She gave up her 18-year job, resigned with her husband, and took her twin daughters to travel by car for a year

This is the 257th unique traveler's story posted by Zuoba.com. The guests in this issue: Nanjie Li Yanan, known as Nanjie by her friends, former business project trader, senior corporate trainer, and now a mother of twins. On July 22, 2022, my father and I both resigned, and the whole family traveled from Zhengzhou, Henan to Lingchuan, Shanxi for summer vacation. It has been more than a month since then. In the coming year, the migratory bird-style sojourn life with children will be launched. Q1: Hello, Sister Nan, you are very welcome to "Let's Go and Have an Appointment". I am currently living with my twin daughters. Before starting the interview, please introduce yourself to the fans of Go Cafe. My husband and I both love to travel. We were busy with work before, so we could only sneak around. We have also visited some places, such as Dali, Lijiang, Hangzhou, Kunming, Beijing, Shanghai, Nanjing, Hong Kong. At the same time, I also love to share, so this time, after we started our self-driving travel life with children, we will also share our experience, knowledge and feelings during the journey with you on the self-media platform! Q2: In the past ten years, you, like most people, have worked hard and laid a solid career foundation. Can you talk about your previous work experience? I entered the field of business project management after graduating from Henan University in 2004. It has been more than 18 years. In the first 10 years, I was engaged in the management of commercial project Party A, and in the next 8 years, I provided commercial project trading services as a third party. From the grass-roots management personnel to the general position of the project step by step, it is not only the accumulation of my work experience, but also the testimony of my hard work! Q3: Why did you decide to quit your job, put down your work and career, and start a long-term sojourn life after the year is over? It is indeed a pity to give up 18 years of work and experience, but I still think it is worthwhile to accompany the baby on a self-driving tour. Childhood time is especially precious when a baby is growing up. Whether it is the establishment of a sense of security, the giving of parental love, or the development of the baby's brain, the company of parents is especially important. It is said that daughters need to be rich. My understanding is that on the basis of providing the baby with a certain degree of material basis, give them more spiritual giving, take the baby out for a walk and see and get in touch with nature! For this I also studied nature education. Q4: During this one-year sojourn life, what plans will you have, where will you go, what scenery will you see, and what will you do? We chose to live in the style of migratory birds. We plan to spend two months in Lingchuan, Shanxi, and then travel all the way to the south, passing through Xi'an, Chengdu, Kunming, and arriving in beautiful cities such as Lijiang, Dali, and Xishuangbanna. The place where I spend my honeymoon with my husband, in winter, I go to Haikou and Sanya to spend the winter. Because it is a self-driving tour with a baby, we will adopt a slow-paced sojourn life, stay in a certain place in a city for a period of time, visit local attractions, learn about local folk customs, and feel the city attentively! During the journey, not only let the baby visit the scenic spots, but also interact with the baby in various parent-child games, let them feel the nature, and lay the foundation for future survival! Q5: Many people think that the experience before the age of three will not be remembered when they grow up, and it is not necessary to travel with children who are too young. What do you think of this? Maybe they won't leave too many memories, but at least they can see and feel their happiness now, and they also remember these happiness, because they often mention the scene where they played before, even a year ago. They all remember their trips to the beach when they were just over a year old. Now I can record my travel experience with my mobile phone, which will be a beautiful and precious memory! The brain development of a child before the age of three is very critical. The experience of taking them out to play can not only broaden their horizons and increase their knowledge, but also use the nature education I have learned to play parent-child interactive games with the baby during the journey. Imagination and language skills. After children go to primary school, considering the reasons for their schoolwork, it is difficult to find out the time to travel with them for such a long time. After they graduate from college, they will have their own circle of friends, and they may choose to spend time with friends of the same age. Played! Q6: Where did you all go before starting this sojourn life? In the beginning of this sojourn life, where have you been and what have you experienced so far? Before having a baby, we have been to Kunming, Dali, Lijiang, Rizhao, Hangzhou, Putuo Mountain, and we have been going to Rizhao for a few days every year for five consecutive years. Let's go to Luoyang Luanchuan to climb the mountain together. After having babies, due to busy work, most of them play in Henan Province, such as Zhengzhou Aquarium, Museum, Science and Technology Museum, Botanical Garden, etc. The farthest place is to take them to Rizhao to watch the sea. Now they are more than two years old, they can Running on their own can also express their thoughts, so they have a plan to take them on a self-driving tour for a year. After we started our self-driving life, we first came to Lingchuan to escape the summer heat. It has been more than a month and we visited eight scenic spots in depth: Lingchuan Wujia Bay, Yew Grand Canyon, Hulu Valley, Zhanghe River, Zhejiang Water, Qizi Mountain, Huangwei Bridge, Gaoping Xunmeng Town, at least once, we have visited Wujiawan seven times. The video is loading... I met a lot of friends who like to travel through the platform, and held a free live broadcast of "Looking for a Farmhouse". I heard the words of thanks from the fans and friends and said that when I successfully signed in to a satisfactory farmhouse, I Happier than him! Now fans and friends will send messages to consult me ​​before traveling, and let me recommend attractions and routes! Q7: You have also opened a Douyin account. What kind of videos are you mainly recording? What ideas do you want to express through the videos? Can you tell us about it? The videos currently recorded mainly focus on attractions play guides and parent-child interactive games. We share our experience after playing and the parent-child games I have learned. At the same time, I position myself as a nanny-level travel blogger. When I have related questions, I will reply as detailed as possible, and I can also create a personalized parent-child travel guide for them for free! There are three main ideas I want to share: 1. Cherish the moment and don’t miss it! When the baby is growing up, some things are difficult to make up once they are missed, and when there are some missing or regrets in the baby's childhood, it is difficult to make up for it even if we spend several years in their adulthood. 2. We can only gain if we give up. Although it seems that it is a pity for us to give up our work for many years, from the perspective of our lifetime career, it is only a short stay for one year. For babies, it is a fond memory of their childhood! 3. We should take the initiative to live life the way we want, instead of passively accepting the existing life! Q8: Many people think that travel is an activity with money and leisure. How much do you budget for this trip? What do you think is more important than money and time? We plan to take the baby on a self-driving tour for a year, with a budget of 100,000 yuan. It is very important to first play the experience during the trip. Make a travel strategy in advance to ensure that everyone has a pleasant play during the trip, and use your mobile phone to record what you see and hear, making it a good memory. Secondly, I am also very concerned about the baby's feelings towards nature. Some abilities that the baby develops during this process will lay a solid foundation for their future survival. And sharing the travel strategy with more friends for your reference, for me, it is also a kind of joy of sharing! Q9: Thank you Sister Nan for accepting the interview with "Let's Go and Have an Appointment". You expressed your own ideas and provided a new lifestyle choice for many people who are hesitant to live. I wish you a smooth journey in your sojourn life, and finally Please say something to the fans. Let's take action and live our lives the way we want! | The above interview content is provided by the guests and published by ZOBA.com. The content and opinions in the article do not represent the position of ZOBA.com. Everyone is welcome to pay attention to the Douyin account "Twin Self-driving Travel Notes", let's have an appointment, and brother Chu said hello to everyone! I am the co-founder of Zuoba.com. A dream come true. She used to be a business project trader, a senior corporate trainer, and a capable professional woman. Things Take the twin daughters to live and play for a year...Life has decades of abandonment. There are some things that you will never have the chance to be brave and cherish the moment and live life the way we want.

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